Lament…
Tuesday 16th October was the first ‘Deep Church’ seminar of the term, Robin Parry speaking on the book of Lamentations. He posed the question “What can Christians do with the book of Lamentations?” [A reminder that the next one on political correctness and Christ is on the 30th October] James Prescott went along to the seminar and kindly wrote this piece on his reflections…
I was unsure at first whether to write this as a straight report, but instead have decided to put down what I felt God was really speaking to me and others about.
Robin said that we need to read the Book of Lamentations both in the context it was written and in light of the New Testament, so we can come to a fuller understanding of it. He mentioned several themes – blessing, destruction, rubble and new life – the first three of which are all found in Lamentations, and all of which can be seen in humanity, Israel and in Christ. And, I thought, can all be found in our culture today. More on that later.
There were two main points that came through to me.
Firstly, lament and worship. Going to a place of pain and worshipping God. Robin discussed how so often we go to church and worship and sing praises to God, but those can so often be total lies in truth. We spend so much time thinking we have to be happy and joyful in worship, when we are actually in a lot of pain. He said there must be a place of lament in the spirit and lament in worship.
It was spot on. From going to a place of pain, we draw closer and more intimately towards God, we share more in His sufferings and He shares in the reality of our lives. We might even be in a good period in our lives, but trusting God and allowing us to be emotionally vulnerable by going to share in His pain, in the way He must feel about what is happening in the world now, with its injustice and poverty, then we understand more about God and can be spurred into action.
Life isn’t all about being happy. Life is not always happy, the Bible isn’t always happy and Jesus isn’t always happy. There is a place for lament. In His lament Jesus totally submits to God, He gives in to His will, He simply trusts Him.
Of course, in the end, He is triumphant. Lament leads to victory.
My second point is that so much of the culture described in Lamentations as described by Robin reminded me of our culture now. He said they were in an emotional and theological crisis, within a culture of shame and honour.
Remind anyone of today?
We are in an emotional crisis. People are suffering from emotional problems of one kind or another more than ever, relationships are breaking down more and more, there is so much confusion around.
We are in a theological crisis of a kind. The Anglican church is divided, the church as a whole is known more for what it’s against and its divisions. Prominent speakers are calling others heretics. The church is declining.
We have a culture of honour and shame. Only we call it the celebrity culture. One minute you’re near on god status and everyone loves you, the next you are the worst thing to happen to the human race. The whole media culture is based around building people up then knocking them down again.
People are in desperate need of Jesus. The book of Lamentations has arguably never been more relevant.
How do we as a church respond to all this?
Personally I think we need to be real. We need to be honest. We need to live out our faith. We need to be Jesus to the people around us, we need to be involved in doing something about the poverty and injustice in the world and in our own community. We need to be known for what we stand for, what we believe in, what our values are and what is important to us. We need to be counter-culture. That’s what being a Christian is, its part of our DNA, not an optional extra and it applies in a church community context and an individual one.
The church needs to be a safe place where people can be free to be honest and express their pain and encounter God and allow Him to minister to it. A place which shows love to those who have none, which has truth and love for a hurting and cynical world. A group of people who take the lead against the injustice in the world. Church leaders need to be honest about pain and the reality of pain.
I think often the world thinks Christians don’t feel pain or try to hide their pain behind the smiles. In the case of the latter I think it is almost certainly true of some Christians and churches today – and some churches are like that too.
We need to be honest with people about our pain and our frustrations. We need to be honest about our weakness. But the difference is then that we can show people that there’s a safe, positive way of dealing with it and getting real healing and support. A place where its okay to feel pain. We need to be honest that we don’t always understand pain, why suffering happens, that we can’t always explain it – but that despite we still have faith that God has felt that pain through Jesus and can deal with it with us. Despite our pain, we can still praise God.
That’s a powerful message to a world full of pain.
It’s a big challenge for us all. Can we rise to it?
6 comments
3.26 pm on 10.26.2007
It’s so interesting that you write this now. I just posted about a conversation we had at the Emergent Gathering about art and creativity and we talked a bit about the lament and it’s role in the world of art.
part of what I was thinking about it is that artists have a prophetic voice and in that they can give voice to the lament and also have the opportunity to communicate the redemptive hope
12.30 am on 10.30.2007
Thanks for the comment, certainly I think its great if we can experess our lament through creativity, and the power in what we create can be phenomenal, whether it be art, music or words or something else. It can also inspire and encourage others in their times of lament.
James.
10.39 pm on 10.28.2007
thanks James, great reflections. i guess it is is easy to buy into the life is happy, or do enough to numb the pain. maybe as mak suggests above sometimes we need something that shocks us to laent, or pierces our defenses or just inspires us, art and lament is a wonderful idea, after all so much of lament is beyond words…
12.32 am on 10.30.2007
Spot on Paul. We all have pain to deal with it, we need to be real with it and go to the cross, and letting God inspire us through pain can be so beneficial.
PS - Am going tomorrow, will send you some stuff on it ASAP.
Cheers, James.
5.54 pm on 11.1.2007
James, thank you for this, I find it very interesting and it brings me a sense of hope. I’m currently writing a PhD on developing a Pentecostal/Charismatic approach to suffering and one of the things that has struck me is the importance of lament. Both the Psalmists, the prophets and Job amongst others seem to set an example that begins with brutal honesty with God about where we’re at and what we’re feeling in order to progress in our relationship with Him and for us to heal. And, when I say we, I mean that both on an individual level and a community level. Surely to be followers of Christ means, at least in part, to share in the pains of those that suffer and give them a safe secure space in which to face their pain. My questions about this about how we do that in our church communities. Do you think that we should be making space for lament in our ‘worship’ services? And what would that space look like? I’d be really interested to hear your thoughts, or for that matter anybody else’s who reads this.
Thanks again.
6.05 pm on 11.1.2007
I think it absolutely crucial to make lament part of our worship. If we are going to be real with God and real about serving our communities, both as church and individually, then we need to engage with and share in the pain God feels for the world, the anger He must feel at how we’ve treated His creation and his desire to do something about it. We need to be prepared to go there though. I think as we go to Jesus and start sharing in His pain, ours can be so much easier to deal with.
Also I think honesty among leadership is important in church. Jason, my pastor, is always honest about his failings, his pain and his need of Jesus to heal and save Him, and in that we can relate to him and his teaching becomes much more authentic. Not saying that works with everyone, but it works in our church for sure.
We should never hide suffering away and act like it doesn’t exist, both in ourselves and others. This world and our own lives are full of pain and suffering, which God wants to deal with. Honesty really is the best policy, both with God and yourself.
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